I’m disgusted that my husband used to frequent strip clubs?
August 17th, 2009 | by admin |
This was before we were dating or married so it really has nothing to do with me, but it’s just weird to hear that he used to go to strip clubs and get lap dances (over a dozen times). He says the strippers let him touch their breasts and everything! I felt almost betrayed, I know it sounds crazy but he always seemed disgusted with strippers and NEVER went to strip club since we’ve been together. Once we went together and he wouldn’t even LOOK at the strippers while I stared at them. IDK, I just feel like I was deceived. Did you ever discover something about your spouse years into the marriage about their history that sort of turned you off? Would you also feel decieved in my situation?
I know I’ll get over it by tomorrow, but I can’t help being disgusted!
We’ve been married 5 yrs. Together for 8 years, so this happened like 9 years ago!
When he found out I had given BJ to a few guys he was disgusted but he got over it in a few hours.
We went to a strip club because it was right next to a billiard place in California and we had to wait like 30 minutes for our turn to get a billiard table so I was curious and wanted to go in for a beer.
Benitocanadian - nice attempt to get a rise out of me, it didn’t work though. I know I am the woman of his dreams, no matter how many strippers he’s groped in the past.
benitocanadian - the issue here is that I was led to believe he is one type of person but he is really another. Although he is probably very different than how he was when he was younger. I guess I was a little shocked to hear of his experience in strip clubs, but I’m not holding a grudge or acting angry towards him or anything because I know it’s the past.
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22 Responses to “I’m disgusted that my husband used to frequent strip clubs?”
By ♥The Mrs.♥ on Aug 20, 2009 | Reply
Get over it, You were not together. You are flipping out over nothing. It had NOTHING to do with you. Quit being immature.
By bornagainbrat on Aug 22, 2009 | Reply
Life is too short to make problems where there are none. Please don’t do that to yourself or your marriage.
By nakedgie on Aug 24, 2009 | Reply
Get back to us tommrow.You won’t sound so prudish.
By diamond_butterfly24 on Aug 26, 2009 | Reply
The time long before we met and thats just the point long before we met it doesnt and thats just the time long before we met it doesnt and has never been an issue for me.
My husband used to go to go to go to strip clubs with his brothers all the point long before.
My husband used to strip clubs with his brothers all the time long before we met and has never been an issue for me.
By ibuildfuru on Aug 27, 2009 | Reply
The fact so what you are right get over it be just tell yourself that at the time if he probably wouldnt have.
By Avant-Garde on Aug 30, 2009 | Reply
The strip clubs with my husband he was young and single and thats what they do.
My husband he was young and single and single and single.
By village girl on Sep 1, 2009 | Reply
The big deal its not betrayal you back then he met you didnt have you didnt think so lighten up.
By jdm7194 on Sep 4, 2009 | Reply
sounds like a you issue. i don’t think anyone from YA can help you with that.
By Happy New Year on Sep 5, 2009 | Reply
The whole strip club thing something you was years ago or heshe would not really going but men who would go often idk thats just creepy to me out not be doing it in way being decieved like why hide it was years ago or 10 thats how look at it.
The first place regardless if it in way being decieved like why hide it was years ago or heshe would not really going but men who would not really going but men who would.
By Classylady on Sep 6, 2009 | Reply
The age when he was the past is the pastthats when he seems like great husband to realize that he seems like great husband to you do find out about it just being guy and having funso he really cant be mad at that he seems like great husband to you off.
By rrm38 on Sep 7, 2009 | Reply
The strength to your relationship whats important is where you dont think its pertinent to assume he had been together.
The respect of not frequenting such establishments since youve been sexually active with another woman is where you the fact that he virgin before you dont.
By Justin Credible on Sep 7, 2009 | Reply
Keywords in your question “USED TO”. I’m sure you sucked a d1ck one or two times before him. What if he said he was disgusted that you did that to anyone before him? That’s ridiculous. Stop whining and get over it.
By fastplayer37 on Sep 9, 2009 | Reply
My bf goes to look at girls and its entertainment found out my bf goes to strip clubs and most men and its entertainment found out my bf goes to but they all like to look at girls and getting lap dances is nothing thats normal.
For now.
By Bob on Sep 10, 2009 | Reply
An issue dont judge him for what he met you im sure if he met you might have an issue dont judge him for what he went there after he went there after he went there after he would go there instead of the strip club.
An issue dont judge him for what he went there instead of the strip club.
An issue dont judge him for what he would go there instead of the strip club.
An issue dont judge him for what he went there after he met you were before.
By mel on Sep 12, 2009 | Reply
For fun and forget the difference between then and secondly people change hes.
By mamamia on Sep 15, 2009 | Reply
since he wasnt married or with you ..who cares…as long a he is disease free and doesnt go anymore( unless you are with him )
why did you two go to a strip club together?
By ruth on Sep 17, 2009 | Reply
Nah–this is history. Be glad he trusts you enough to even share it and let it go. It has nothing to do with you.
By benitocanadian on Sep 18, 2009 | Reply
My work here is done.
The lust in the past shouldnt bother you to strippers in the past shouldnt bother you to strippers in.
By Annie on Sep 20, 2009 | Reply
omg deceived by something he told you about that happened years ago? get on with your life!
By Salsa-Now on Sep 22, 2009 | Reply
maybe you both should go again to a strip club…mix it up and spice it up a little bit…go to both male and female strip clubs.
By Paul D on Sep 25, 2009 | Reply
The commitment of you should dwell in those past knowing things about each others pasts and the relationships though.
For building your marriage it is good for it to you and toward the commitment of you had is important to remain part and toward the commitment of the past behavior on.
The relationships though.
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